Sabina's Inbox

Okay, I'm just going to jump in right now because I had to deal with another poor douchecanoe whose clearly got a angry hard on for women that have rejected him. And because I consider myself a person who likes to tell the truth, I'm going to break it down for you boys even though it's about to hurt.

The reason that girl doesn't like you is probably because of you.

Yes, it's you.

Yep.

I know, I know.. you think it's because of her ex, he inability to trust, her busy job, her family life, etc,. etc.

Nope, it's you.

She just doesn't like you.

She's just not that into you.

Now, let me explain before you think i'm some really evil bitch with no heart whose here to crush your dreams and hopes and whatever. Listen, I'm literally telling you boys because somebody has too, somebody has to explain to you how the friend zone that you think you're in is really just a zone you put yourself in because she doesn't like you like that.

At any given time, you can rip off the band-aid (heyyyyy, que to earlier post) and tell the truth about how you feel about her but you don't in fear of rejection.

Well boys, I'm here to tell you that 90 percent of the time you will get rejected, the other 5 percent she's just lonely and the other 4.999 percent is her using you in order to hurt someone and sadly, a measly .0001 percent actually make it out of this suppose friend zone you all keep complaining about.

Why is this? Because you'll know when a woman likes you.

And let me also iterate that in no way am I condoning this behavior as acceptable but it just is what it is. For whatever reason this woman doesn't like you, you could be the tallest, hottest, richest and most honest man in the world (LOL.. let's be serious there's a 1 in a trillion chances that exists) but if you are, I'm sorry but she doesn't need a reason to not like you.

She just doesn't. It could be that you may be the hottest but not to her, you can be the tallest but she likes shorter guys, you could be the richest but her parents have money so why does she care and you can be a straight descendent from honest Abe and she doesn't give two craps if you lie to her cause.. she's just not that into you.

But what do you boys do besides bitch and moan, at least we women will take the truth, straight shooter no chaser. If a man doesn't like me than so be it, his loss. You don't wanna be with me, well you're a moron and good luck to you and lastly if a guy's treating you like you're an option than once we realize (although I admit we take our damn time) we bounce, we're out of there like those dudes on Maury who were not the father. We may cry about it but we're crying on our way out that door.

Now, to combat the most annoying and punch worthy things the opposite sex LOVES to say, is that we women, all of us, love assholes.

Now I'm sure there are some masochistic women out there who are into some real humiliating shit and it is true, that we women are a forgiving bunch and take back that "asshole" over and over.

Here's what's really gonna piss you off but in my 27 years, I have never met one woman who fell in love with an asshole.

I'm serious.

Not one.

See it's a defense mechanism "good guys" came up with to help their feelings when a girl just didn't like them. This isn't high school, we're talking real love, not just dating for social status and to become prom queen. Or how some women just enjoy the chase (just to remind you, that's not real love, that's obsession.)

Every woman I know fell in love with a good guy, the guy who asked her how her day was, who was attentive, who respected her and treated her well. He was a sweetheart and she fell for him hard until he really wasn't a sweetheart anymore a few months down the line.

See what all of you have suppppper confused is that women fall in love with assholes, nooooo. Noooo, we fall in love with con artists. Men who convince us that they're good guys, that they've changed from how they use to be when they were younger and that they aren't like the previous man and then what happens? Is they flip the script, cheating, lies, mental/physical abuse, bums, etc., etc.

And what are we suppose to do, it's in our nature to be loving and forgiving and that's what we are. We forgive, sometimes hundreds of times until we realize that this "good guy" was an asshole in disguise, he just did a good job convincing us otherwise until we were attached.

They are manipulative and calculating and wait until a woman is mentally invested to drop their true personalities into the mix.

I'm sick of being told how much I love assholes when every relationship I've been in or even the guys I've dated, the men were sweethearts. They treated me like a princess until they got comfortable and felt that was no longer a necessity to keep me around (as well as many of my friends who have experienced the same thing.)

So I'm here to tell you "good guys" that you need to stop bitching about the friend zone, about assholes getting their way and all around angry little women hating brats. Calm your balls.

She's just not that into you, there is no friend zone. She just doesn't like you like that because trust me, if she did, you'd know. She didn't place you there, she rejected you by making it clear she had no intentions of ever seeing you in an intimate light and instead of saying "listen, I like you and I'd love to take you out," and facing rejection, y'all just stay complacent in some made up friend zone and just complain about it the entire time.

Nobody is forcing you to be her friend.

And stop judging her for her choice in men, this isn't high school where we're blinded by pure lust and physical beauty. We're adults, this is different now, she just doesn't like you like that and she doesn't owe you any chance no matter what.

Because real good guys don't just wallow and wait around in the corners, they know their worth and they don't let any woman make them feel unworthy. They don't complain, talk shit, make memes, comment negative posts complaining on women's statuses. They know they're the shit, they're the goal, they're the it. And if some half brain woman doesn't want him for any reason, the last thing he is, is angry about it. She saved his ass from a life of heartache because why would you ever want to be with someone who settled for you or thought you weren't enough?

Remember, the real good guys. They know.

If she don't want them, that's her loss.

The last thing the good guy is, is a cry baby.

So all you friend zoned, fake good, complaining about assholes type of men need to sit all the way down, always talking about how she would rather have her heartbroken, well chances are the guy who broke her heart approached her and treated her just like you plan too, in the beginning.

So don't judge, rather, go out and find someone who gives you the chance to show them whether you really are a good guy.. or maybe a con artist?

xoxo
Binch